Time For Reflection

On New Year's eve, I always try to reflect, as most people do, on the events of the past year that have had some sort of impact on me or my family.

The biggest one, and one of the most recent events, was the passing of my Grandma Cesario. She was my dad's mom and such a figurehead in our family. Going to her funeral, was an amazing thing though, as my cousins from all over the country flew in to remember her. At that moment, I knew she was looking down at all of us, smiling, knowing that for one more time she managed to bring everyone home.

2006 was a very hard year healthwise for our family as Tyler, Shawn, Joshua and myself all endured a multitude of different illnesses, surgeries and disorders. My boss put it exactly right when he said, "You know you've had a hard year when you run out of sick and paid time off." Fortunately, our family overcame these hardships and are stronger than ever (well, almost - read previous blog on the flu...)

Overall, 2006 has been an exciting year of firsts for the Yancey family.

Tyler graduated kindergarted and started first grade. Who would have thought that he would join choir and be in his first musical? He rode his bike without training wheels and made plenty of friends in our neighborhood.

Joshua, on the otherhand, grew up so quickly this year. We were able to celebrate Joshua's first birthday in October. It still amazes me that in one year he went from newborn, to baby, to toddler and has taken his first steps today, in fact.

Shawn and I celebrated our first anniversary in our house. I bought my first brand-new car (without any outside help) while Shawn was able to celebrate one full year in business.

2006 has been a year of celebration and losses, joys and saddness, failures and successes. I can only look forward to what 2007 has in store for us.

Luke 2:1-15

And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed. ([And] this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)
And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.
And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:)
To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child.
And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.
And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.
And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.
And this [shall be] a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.
And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,
Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us

The Flu

Just to update...no time to blog...the Flu has hit our home...

Tyler woke up the night before last with 103.7 fever. Took him to the doctor's yesterday and he tested positive for the flu. Fortunately for us, unfortunate for Ty, it is not the stomach version. Though, I do hate the fact that Tyler is in incredible pain with his head and body aches, not to mention he is dizzy.

All four of us have the great pleasure of indulging ourselves in Tamiflu for the next 10 days. Say a prayer and keep your fingers crossed...

Will update when all is well...

Tyler's Christmas List

Here is Tyler's Christmas list (before it gets any longer.) Next year, we will put a limit on requests.

(spelling is his as is capitalization and punctuation)

1. DOODLE DUg
2. PACMAN WORD RALLY
3. kanGaRO JACK
4. MONSTER HOUSE
5. ZOOM
6. Air HOgS STOrM LAUNCher
7. CArSRAdiATOr SpringS
8. ROAd ChAMpS
9. HAPPY Feet - GaME
10. PiRANHA PANiC
11. A BiKe
12. SHArk BoY AND LAVA GiAL ON 3D
13. BullsidBaAls (?????)
14. HAppY Feet the GAME (Again)
15. NickToon VALKAno

We'll let you know what Santa brings...

Our Local Heroes

Ok, Ok...

I have to share what happened today.

Today a colleague and I went to a meeting about 30 miles from the office. I am talking on the phone (using hands free, of course.) All of sudden she yells, "Look, there's a fire on the side of the interstate." And, true to her word, there was.

The funny part of it, was right ahead of us was a state trooper and a fire truck. Going past it. Not paying any attention.

So, we being the good citizens, called 911.

'Tis The Season

There are a few stories that I am looking forward to blogging in the next couple of days. This weekend was adventurous and entertaining, to say the least. I was encouraged by a colleague to blog this story first.

On Sunday, after church, my mother-in-law, Diane, who was down visiting us for the weekend and to see Tyler's show (more to come on that later,) took us to brunch at Cracker Barrel. As you know, if you've been to Cracker Barrel, there are many neat little things you can buy. Well, I love Christmas angels. They are part of my favorite things to decorate, and Diane knows that very well. We were both in awe over these three fiber optic angels in a set. They sing all in unison and are triggered by infrared light. Just beautiful.

Unfortunately, there were only two sets left. Diane decided to ask the sales staff if they could put them (one for her and one for us) behind the cash register counter until after we ate so we could pay for it all together. They, of course, said no problem, we just had to give our name.

Do you know what? Someone apparently overheard that they were the last two sets, and told the cashier that they were us. ....And gave our name....and bought them... So when my mother-in-law went to pay, the angels were gone! What kind of people would "steal," so to speak, our angels?!?!?!?!? I thought it was crazy.

Fortunately, the girls made a mistake and there were a few more sets in the back.

Oh well, tis the season!!!!

You Know You Grew Up in the 80's If... Part 2

Here is the continuation from "You knew You Grew Up in the 80's if..." Thanks to theyanceyfamily from Utah. Enjoy!
34. You ever owned a pair of Jelly-Shoes.
35. After you saw Pee-Wee's Big Adventure you kept saying "I know you are, but what am I?"
36. You remember "I've fallen and I can't get up"
37. You remember going to the skating rink before there were inlineskates.
38. You ever got seriously injured on a Slip and Slide.
39. You have ever played with a Skip-It.
40. You had or attended a birthday party at McDonalds.
41. You've gone through this nodding your head in agreement.
42. You remember Popples.
43. Don't worry, be happy
44. You wore like, EIGHT pairs of socks over tights with high top Reeboks.
45. You wore socks scrunched down (and sometimes still do..getting yelled at by younger hip members of the family)
46. You remember boom boxes and walking around with one on your shoulder like you were all that.
47. You remember watching both Gremlins movies.
48. You know what it meant to say "Care Bear Stare!!"
49 You remember watching Rainbow Bright and & My Little Pony Tales
50. You thought Doogie Howser/Samantha Micelli was hot.
51. You remember Alf, the lil furry brown alien from Melmac.
52. You remember New Kids on the Block when they were cool...and don't even flinch when people refer to them as "NKOTB"
53. You knew all the characters names and their life stories on "SavedBy The Bell," The ORIGINAL class.
54. You know all the words to Bon Jovi - SHOT THROUGH THE HEART.
55. You just sang those words to yourself.
56. You remember watching Magic vs. Bird.
57. Homemade Levi shorts.. (the shorter the better)
58. You remember when mullets were cool!
59. You had a mullet!
60. You still sing "We are the World"
61. You tight rolled your jeans.
62. You owned a bannana clip.
63. You remember "Where's the Beef?"
64. You used to (and probably still do) say "What you talkin' 'bout Willis?"
65 You had big hair and you knew how to use it.
66. You're still singing shot through the heart in your head, aren't you!

You Know You Grew Up in the 80's If... Part 1

There is another Yancey family out there! Actually in Utah!!! No relation to our family (that we know of yet.) but pretty cool.

They found us by blogging and encouraged me to keep blogging (along with a couple of other people). I saw this on their blog, theyanceyfamily, and thought it was perfect to share.
Hopefully, they won't mind.

Please look, it is so TOTALLY AWESOME!

You Know You Grew Up In The 80's if:
1. You've ever ended a sentence with the word SIKE.
2. You watched the Pound Puppies.
3. You can sing the rap to the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air and can do the Carlton
4. Girls wore biker shorts under their skirts and felt stylishly sexy.
5. You yearned to be a member of the Baby-sitters club and tried tostart a club of your own.
6. You owned those lil' Strawberry Shortcake pals scented dolls.
7. You know that "WOAH" comes from Joey on Blossom
8. Two words: Hammer Pants
9. If you ever watched "Fraggle Rock"
10. You had plastic streamers on your handle bars... and spokey-dokes or playing cards on your spokes for that incredible sound effect
11. You can sing the entire theme song to "Duck Tales" (Woo ooh!)
12. It was actually worth getting up early on a Saturday to watch cartoons.
13. You wore a ponytail on the side of your head.
14. You saw the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on the bigscreen..and still know the turtles names.
15. You got super-excited when it was Oregon Trail day in computer class at school.
16. You made your mom buy one of those clips that would hold your shirtin a knot on the side. 17. You played the game "MASH"(Mansion, Apartment, Shelter, House)
18. You wore stonewashed Jordache jean jackets and were proud of it.
19. L.A. Gear....need I say more?
20. You wanted to change your name to "JEM" in Kindergarten. (She'sTruly Outrageous.)
21. You remember reading Tales of a fourth grade nothing and all The Ramona books.
22. You know the profound meaning of "WAX ON, WAX OFF"
23. You wanted to be a Goonie.
24. You ever wore fluorescent clothing. (some of us...head-to-toe)
25. You can remember what Michael Jackson looked like before his nosefell off and his cheeks shifted.
26. You have ever pondered why Smurfette was the only female smurf.
27. You took lunch boxes to school...and traded Garbage Pailkids in the schoolyard.
28. You remember the CRAZE, then the BANNING of slap bracelets.
29. You still get the urge to say "NOT" after every sentence.
30. You remember Hypercolor t-shirts.
31. Barbie and the Rockers was your favorite band.
32. You thought She-ra (Princess of Power!) and He-Man should hook up.
33. You thought your childhood friends would never leave because you exchanged handmade friendship bracelets.

Update:

We all survived the tooth pulling extravaganza. Tyler is very excited as he said, "The tooth fairy is going to give me lots of money for this one."

So Shawn has gone to go to the ATM.... Boyinflation sure has gone up. Did I ever get over 50 cents for a tooth?

Tylers Scary Day (Mommy's Too)

Today Tyler has to be at the dentist to have an abscessed tooth removed. His baby tooth broke off and the dentist told us that "it would hold." Apparently, it did not.

Thanks to God, Tyler never felt any pain with this tooth. He just tasted something funny in his mouth. When I looked in his mouth to see what it was, there was this monstrous like growth. After a week of antibiotics, today is the big day....though Tyler is unaware - just knows he has to go to the dentist. That way his anxiety isn't flared up by the anticipation.

On the other hand, my anxiety is flared wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy up. In fact, I am not even going to the dentist. The thought of him being gassed up, out of his head, having a tooth pulled from his mouth, is just too much for me to handle. I mean, c'mon, his tooth isn't even loose!!! I don't handle it very well when his loose tooth falls out. Just grosses me out.

So, needless to say, Shawn will be going to the dentist, with a detailed list of questions to ask, of course, and I will be waiting at home for Tyler, where I can baby the little bugger.

Will keep you posted.

Black Friday

Okay, okay. I have to confess. I did it. Went against my cardinal rule and, well, you probably guessed it...SHOPPED on Black Friday. I do have to say, though, in my own defense, that EVERYBODY was putting all sorts of peer pressure on me....my mom, my sister-in-law, friends...How could I say no? I did get a couple of things, not much, as my irritation level began to grow and grow (as I predicted in my previous blog.) In fact, when some 4 year old grabbed Joshua in the eye (thumb in eye-not just a little passing sweep) not once, but twice and Joshy was bleeding, I had had ENOUGH.

Afterward we went and got our new cellphones as our two-year contract was up and then cut down our family Christmas tree at the Christmas Tree Farm a few miles from our house. It started out being really fun and exciting, but after 2 hours of looking at trees with no end at sight, I think our family was about beat.

We did, though, in the end, cut down a beautiful tree and tomorrow we will begin decorating it. I LOVE this time of year.

And The Countdown Begins

It is now techically "Black Friday," and in about an hour or two the shopping craze will begin. Though doubtfully for our family. I am not a big "Day After Thanksgiving Sale" shopper. All those people just start getting on my nerves after awhile. The only reason why I hesitate, is that it is also tax-free weekend in South Carolina which gives you that extra little push to get out there and fight the crowds.

Though, I can remember one year deciding to take that venture out to the malls to really see what the hub-bub was all about. I had never, believe it or not, shoppend on this notorious date. Shopping for Christmas that early, meant planning way ahead, which I was never really good at.

I believe for my first venture and introduction to Black Friday, Tyler was only about 6 months old, so obviously, still in a stroller. Not that the pushing for those "gotta have it" sale items was bad enough, but there were actual people putting the things they didn't want, on my son's stroller. When I said, "excuse me," they actually looked at me as if I was from Mars. After that, Shawn and I figured between the mad rush of people, the lack of parking spaces (or better yet the 3 mile hike just to get into the mall) and the irritable, pushy and crazed people out there, that this shopping day was not meant for us.

Even though I may not shop on the day after Thanksgiving, it still has very special meaning as now the countdown to Christmas really begins. Beginning tomorrow (or in a couple of hours,) I can officially listen to Christmas music, 24 hours a day if I wish, pull out our Christmas decorations from the attic, decorate the outside of our house with lights and venture to the Christmas Tree Farm, to cut down our tree. It will begin the season of watching our Charlie Brown Christmas, Rudolph the Rednose Reindeer and Frosty the Snowman DVD's, Christmas Caroling, cookie baking and of course, the most important, to recognize and celebrate the birth of Jesus.

Though, when Shawn realizes what is in store for the day, I bet he'll want to go shopping instead.

Hair Trauma Update

Here is a little update to my previous post....

Thanks to good friend who introduced me to her JCPenney stylist, my hair is much better. Very short, still very black, still was some frizz, but all in all better than the poodle thing.

Though I have to say, when I went back to the lady who did my hair, she wouldn't even acknowledge my presence until he other client had left. Only then did she say, "Oh honey, look at your hair....Want some shampoo?"

Guess I won't be going back to her.

Hair Trauma 101

I have just had a crash course in Hair Trauma 101.

Through the years, I have been a red head, blonde, brunette, with short hair, long hair, funky hair, spiked and probably about everything else. Never have I been upset, because my feelings have always been, "it's hair, it will grow back."

Well I have experienced my first hair trauma soon followed by mental breakdown.

I had really searched for the style I had wanted. Something simple. The color was supposed to be a rich brown, kind of like a chocolate bar, with caramel highlights (I think I was hungry while thinking about this.) I even found the picture of the style from a magazine so it would be easy for the stylist to achieve.

When she was done, she turned me around to the mirror and the picture to the left is what I looked like.

I am devastated!!!
Mortified!
Embarrassed!
Humiliated!
Furious (who would spend $140 for this?)

Even Joshy looked at me and cried when I got home. Shawn, he knows better not to say anything. And Tyler, you ask? He is the sweet one, who says, "Mommy, you're still beautiful, but I want your hair back brown again."

I am working on trying to fix it, but if anyone has the answers please respond, for I am in need of some serious hair advice.

Happy Birthday Grandpa!!!

Mountain Top

As I was getting ready to blog today, I saw that this would be my 100th post. I am stunned. I can't believed that I have written, and you have read 100 different writings. Thank you.

Well, I won't let my 100th post be a waste. As you know, part of my job is to attend Relay For Life's all over the state of North Carolina. With over 125 Relays and 12 hours from one end of the state to the other, I am fortunate that I have the ability to meet such diverse people, and even more so, see diverse places. Yesterday was one of them.

This Relay was going to be even more exciting then normal, as a representative from our National Home Office was flying in to travel with me, to visit our number one in the nation per cap Relay, called "Mountain Top." Mountain Top, is truly as it sounds, up, very far up, the top of a mountain. Surprise, Surprise...

It is always fun to travel, but I would never have expected, even though I was warned, what the travel would be like up the mountain. We were even asked, prior to coming, if either of us tend to get car sick. Well, you know, people can exagerate. Haha, not this time. I don't get car sick, but by time we reached the top of the mountain, I sure didn't care if I ate.

The relay itself was okay, though the sheer fact that fifteen teams raised over $220,000 prior to the event night was amazing. The people there had some AWESOME stories to share. In fact we were even directed to look up, way far up in the distance, to see the owner of Home Depot's house. Lots of money, and even more character, in that area, which leads me to tell you some of the interesting signs we saw...

"Animals Fixed Cheap - $20.00" - SCARY
"FarmDog Restaurant" - Which had a 10 foot fork and spoon out in front of it
"DairyBar" - Apparently a phrase heard in more parts of the country then I am familiar with
"Boiled Peanuts" - which I have heard, being in SC, but what I haven't heard is a taxedermist in the same place...hmmmm

I will say, though my colleague from NHO and I had a great time traveling, of course, it couldn't have ended without drama. After coming down the very curvy and steep mountain, we knew we would have to eat, though nothing sounded good, except for Dolly's Dairy Bar. We both had some sort of homemade icecream for dinner and it was YUMMY. While heading to the hotel, my colleague looks at me, and says "...I think I am having an allergic reaction to something.." and continues with "...well, if my voice starts to go, then we have to worry about my breathing. Otherwise, I will just take some Benedryl and it will hopefully go away." (If I didn't quote accurately, my deepest apologies.)

At 8:30am (after being on the road for three hours) I was so excited to get home to see Shawn and the boys. I am fortunate to have a job like I do, but I am even more fortunate to have the family I come home to.

A New Home For Us Maybe...

We have been visiting a church for a couple of weeks and we really seem to like it. It is really big though. Shawn and I have only been to smaller size churches, so this is a HUGE change for us.

One of the things I am excited about in going to a bigger size church is that there is soooooooooooo much more to do. Yesterday, they had the ministry blastoff, with Clay Cross from Jars of Clay performing. It was AWESOME. Though out of that, here is what our schedule already forcasts for us.

Sunday Morning - Sunday School followed by Worship Service
Sunday Night - AWANAs for Tyler
Monday Night - Women's Bible Study
Tuesday Night - Men's Bible Study
Wednesday Night - Children's Choir for Ty followed by RAs (Royal Ambassadors) for both Ty and Dad
Thursday Night - A Financial Planning Guideline (who couldn't benefit from some prayers when it comes to home finances)
Oh and before I forget, there are small groups for us to choose from. We don't have many days of the week left, so I am not sure where that is going to go.

I jokingly said to Shawn that this is where we need to be. They keep you so busy, that there is no time left to get into trouble.

Please go visit the site, http://www.fbcrockhill.org/, and tell us what you think. We truly would love some opinions. Finding a church home is so important.

Tyler

Tomorrow is Tyler's first day of 1st grade. I say this with such mixed emotions...

Of course, I am so proud of Tyler. He is already reading and writing (still working on shoe-tying though,) and really loves to learn. This year is a big deal year. It is FIRST Grade!!! and as Tyler says, "I've never gone in it so it is more funner than my kindergarten school."

We have gone school shopping for the HUGE list of must-haves for school (it really is amazing what they must have for school.) And, thanks to Nana who totally spoiled Tyler and took him school clothes shopping during an unexpected trip to the beach on tax-free weekend. So we really are ready.

But then I think...

I can't believe he is already six years old. You know, I remember when my parents used to say, "Don't try to grow up so fast." I tend to wonder, was that advice for me, or for them?

It breaks me apart that TyTy, doesn't want me to call him Ty Ty any more. Or that hugs and kisses are a no way in public. Ty's always been my sensitive child, and still is, so it is especially hard that the little guy who was always a "Mama's Boy" is now starting to be so independant and do more boy stuff. But that is what we strive for.

Tomorrow my baby starts first grade and today is my day to be emotional about it.

I Have Been Tagged

I have been tagged by Teresa, so here are my answers...

5 things in my freezer: Waffles, Ice Packs, "Uncrustables," chicken and steaks

5 things in my closet: Shoes, Boxes, Clothes, Pictures and Relay Gear

5 things in my car: cell phone charger,cd's, Car Seat, DVD Player/DVD's and Baby Toys

5 things in my purse: I don't carry one

5 things in my wallet: license, Block Buster Card, PetSmart Card, Credit Card and Insurance Card

People I tag to do this list:
Karen and Cindy Copy these questions to your blog.... then comment me so I can go over and see your answers.

Family Game Night Update

We have created a "Monopoly Monster."

We used to have "Family Game Night, 2 nights a week, after Joshy would go to bed, but now it is an everynight thing, sometimes two or three games since Monopoly has come into our house.

You know what? I haven't won one yet. Oh well.

Today has been a very hectic day at work as we are all preparing for our Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Corporate Breakfast. Please follow the link below to help make a difference in the fight against breast cancer:

www.cancer.org/stridesonline

Icebreaker

Here is a little activity to get to know the people who reads this blog. We did this at a recent regional meeting we had and it was kind of funny to see the answers...

We are going to come up with our "movie star name." To do this you need to put your first pet's name as your first name and the street you grew up on for your last name. Mine for example is.... "Dukie Washburn."

So it is your turn...What is your movie star name?

A Working Mom's Pity Party

I feel that I am a very fortunate person. I have a great family, a nice house, wonderful friends and even a fantastic job. Though every now and again, I begin to feel tugged between work and home.

I know a lot of stay at home mom's couldn't even think about being a working mom, but I have to admit, I am a better mother because of it. For me (I'm not talking for anyone else - just strictly me,) when I work, I don't take the time I have with my children for granted. Normally, it's packed pretty good with activities, i.e. last night's "Family Game Night."

And my job, I am so lucky. I love what I do. I get to combine my passion of helping others with writing, communicating and meeting people. If I am going to be away from my children, working where I do is the place, but lately it has been hard... Here is why..

Tyler starts 1st grade August 9th, where did the time go?

Joshua will be one in 2 1/2 months. Again, where did the time go?

Tyler is having severe anxiety...Go see the counselor next week.

Joshua is having severe separation anxiety.

How about the daycare trauma (3 boys ganged up on Ty,) the new infant room daycare teachers, new school orientation, back pack shopping, new clothes shopping, hair cuts, doctors.....and the list goes on and on.

Some days, I just don't know which way to go first. Both are important responsibilities. Though, I do have to admit my supervisor does always reiterate...FAMILY FIRST (and actually means it.) I guess I will just take tings as they come, one day at a time.

Family Game Night

We had family game night (minus Joshy, who was asleeep) tonight. We played Junior Monopoly and Tyler kicked our butts - without us letting him. It was great!!!

Watch out Grandpa C and Uncle Marty. We have another "Monopoly Head" in the family.

What a wonderful night!!!!!!!!!!!

Service With A Smile (or not)

I have to share with you all what happened to me yesterday. It was horrible.

I went to an upscale store in our area (one that I had never been to,) frantically, as to find something appropriate to wear to the meetings I originally had scheduled for today. As I walk in the store, I begin looking around for something that would suit my needs.

A saleswoman approached me and this is the conversation we had....

Saleswoman: "May I help you?"

Me: "No thank you, I am just looking."

Saleswoman: "Are you looking for a gift for someone?"

Me: "No ma'am. For myself."

Saleswoman: "I am sorry, but we don't service your size."

Ok, ok. I am not a twig anymore, actually, far from it, but still....you don't service my size?!?!?!?!? And I didn't even want my "size" serviced... Just needed a new outfit. And by the way, what kind of store only sells sizes 0-3 anyway, especially when the average size in the USA is 14?

What kind of customer service is that?

Needless to say, I went to my ol' friend JC Penney, where they, apparently, service my size.

Parental Advice

Has anyone out there had to deal with severe anxiety in their child? If so, I need some advice.

North Carolina Ink

Recently, Shawn has been more and more determined that he wants a tatoo. We watch "Miami Ink" weekly to give him ideas on what he can do.

I am all for the tatoo. Heck, I have three, so who am I to say no. I am actually kind of jealous, because I would love another one, but, there's no where else (that I am going to put one anyway) that can be hidden somewhat, so I still look somewhat professional.

He has decided to have it put on his calf (sexy I think,) and he wants to somehow incorporate his Christian faith and the boys.

If anyone has any ideas, or is an artist, please send ideas our way.

All The Way to Buffalo

Friday night, was Relay For Life night again. As you already know, I really do love Relay. I love the cause, the event, the people, the food, that activities and the community involvement. I especially love the fact that I get to see a variety of them through the year, meaning no one relay is exactly alike. Well, Friday was a little bit different from the norm, as I had a representative from our National Home Office accompany me as he was trying to shoot some footage.

You know, being in a car with someone you do not know for 2 hours one way, can be a little nerveracking... You don't know whether you'll have anything to talk about, if your personalities will get along or if you will want to push that other person out the door. Fortunately, for me, we got along great, enjoying the company of one another as we drove deeper and deeper into as what he referred to as the "sticks." We truly went over the river and through the woods, up the mountain top....

The best sight for the both of us and we laughed about it the rest of the way, was the buffalo farm. Not just one buffalo, but about 40 buffalos grazing out it the middle of the field, on the side of the road. Not something someone from Charlotte or my guest from Atlanta was used to seeing. From there on out, we new we would be introduced to a variety of new things, from this Mountain town Relay. We were and it was AWESOME!!!

Does anyone know why all of my profile stuff is at the bottom of the page?

You Win Some, You Lose Some

I have to share what happened this morning. It was actually quite funny if you ask me.

I am not the breakfast cook in our house. That, and grilling, is all Shawn. This morning though, I decided to surprise everyone and make a big breakfast before we visited a new church.

I made scrambled eggs, with cheese, sausage, toast and coffee (for Shawn and I). The wonderful aroma woke everyone in the house up, and they all kind of gathered at the table. Everything was done at the same time and it looked great! It smelled great!!! Taste great? Not so much.

Apparently, we have had the sausage in the freezer just long enough for it to get freezer burnt. The jelly on the toast was reduced sugar, so not so tasty. We ended up having for breakfast...scrambled eggs...

Oh well, it was the thought that counts!

A Testament of Love

I know I am still talking about vacation, but when we went to NY we went to the St. Lawrence River, bordering Canada and NY. It is home to the Thousand Islands and it is beautiful.

One of the highlights of the Thousand Islands is Heart Island, home of Boldt Castle.

Boldt Castle is a true testament of love. In 1900 George C. Boldt, proprietor of the Waldorf Astoria Hotel in New York City wanted to build a castle as a display of his love for his wife, Louise.

Beginning in 1900, Boldt's family shared four glorious summers on the island in the Alster Tower while 300 workers designed and built the six story, 120 room castle, complete with tunnels, a powerhouse, Italian gardens, a draw bridge, and a dove cote.

In 1904, tragedy struck. Boldt telegraphed the island and commanded the workers to immediately "stop all construction." Louise had died suddenly. A broken hearted Boldt could not imagine his dream castle without her. George Boldt never did again return to the island.

From then on, the castle and various stone structures were left to the mercy of the wind, rain, ice, snow and vandals. When the Thousand Islands Bridge Authority acquired the property in 1977, for the sum of $1.00 (yes, one dollar) it became a tourist attraction with all revenue helping to refurbish the castle.

Since 1977, several million dollars have been applied to rehabilitating, restoring and improving the Heart Island structures. Here are some pictures of this amazing show of love...

Vacation Pics

We recently went to Upstate, NY... Here are some awesome pics.



Joshy

Tyler









Yancey Family

The Best Picture in the World

We recently went to Upstate NY and visited my 87 year old (though he'll tell you 78) gramps. It was so good to see him.

I took this awesome picture of Tyler and my Grandpa at Tyler's 6th birthday party.

I think it is so cool to see generations come together.

Writers Block

I don't know what is exactly wrong with me lately. I used to LOVE to blog. Now, when I get time to do it, I just sit here and ask myself, "duh, what is interesting that I can write about?" Guess what? I don't answer.

Hopefully soon, this writer's block of mine will disappear.

I do need to ask some of you that read for some advice.

Shawn and I are desperate to find a new church. We have only been to church since all of the drama happened at our last one and we are kind of scared. What if we pick the wrong one again? How do we go about finding one? Which denomination do we go to?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. We are starting to feel a little lost and the longer we stay out, the harder it seems to get the gumption up to go.

I'm BAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK, I had finally having people reading my blog every day and then I fall of the face of the earth.

Well, I am back and ready to start blogging, but want to make sure there will be people reading.

Is there anybody out there??????????????

A Sobering Story

Recently received this email from my neighbor's daughter. Instead of forwarding in an email to all of you, I thought I would post it and ask that you send this to anyone who has a teenager...

Jenny was so happy about the house they had found. For once in her life 'twas on the right side of town.
She unpacked her things with such great ease. As she watched her new curtains blow in the breeze.
How wonderful it was to have her own room. School would be starting; she'd have friends over soon.
There'd be sleep-overs, and parties; she was so happy It's just theway she wanted her life to be.
On the first day of school, everything went great. She made new friends and even got a date!
She thought, "I want to be popular and I'm going to be, Because I just got a date with the star ofthe team!"
To be known in this school you had to have clout, And dating this guy would sure help her out.
There was only one problem stopping her fate. Her parents had said she was too young to date.
"Well I just won't tell them the entire truth. They won't know the difference; what's there to lose?"
Jenny asked to stay with her friends that night. Her parents frowned but said, "All right."
Excited, she got ready for the big event But as she rushed around like she had no sense.
She began to feel guilty about all the lies, But what's a pizza, a party, and a moonlight ride?
Well the pizza was good, and the party was great, But the moonlight ride would have to wait.
For Dan was half drunk by this time. But he kissed her and said that he was just fine.
Then the room filled with smoked and Dan took a puff. Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking that stuff.
Now Dan was ready to ride to the point But only after he'd smoked another joint.
They jumped in the car for the moonlight ride, Not thinking that he was too drunk to drive.
Theyfinally made it to the point at last, And Dan started trying to make a pass.
A pass is not what Jenny wanted at all (and by a pass, I don't mean playing football.)
"Perhaps my parents were right....maybe I am too young. Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb."
With all of her might, she pushed Dan away: "Please take me home, I don't want to stay."
Dan cranked up theengine and floored the gas. In a matter of seconds they were going too fast.
As Dan drove on in a fit of wild anger, Jenny knew that her life was in danger.
She begged and pleaded for him to slow down, But he just got faster as they neared the town.
"Just let me get home! I'll confess that I lied. I really went out for a moonlight ride."
Then all of a sudden, she saw a big flash. "Oh God, Please help us! We're going to crash!"
She doesn't remember the force of impact. Just that everything all of a sudden went black.
She felt someone remove her from the twisted rubble, And heard,"call an ambulance! These kids are in trouble!"
Voices she heard...a few words at best. But she knew there were two cars involved in the wreck.
Then wondered to herself if Dan was all right, And if the people in the other car was alive.
She awoke in the hospital to faces so sad. "You've been in a wreck and it looks pretty bad."
These voices echoed inside her head, As they gently told her that Dan was dead.
They said "Jenny, we've done all we can do. But it looks as if we'll lose you too."
"But the people in the other car!?" Jenny cried. "We're sorry, Jenny, they also died."
Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for what I've done I only wanted to have just one night of fun."
"Tell those people's family, I've made their lives dim, And wish I could return their families to them."
"Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied, And that it's my fault so many have died.
Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them that for me?" The nurse just stood there-she never agreed.
But took Jenny's hand with tears in her eyes. And a few moments later Jenny died.
A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't you do your best? To bid that girl her one last request?"
She looked at the man with eyes so sad. "Because the people in the other car were her mom and dad."
This story is sad and unpleasant but true, So young people take heed, it could have been you.

Please pass this on...

To the Back, To the Back

Joshua started crawling yesterday, though he has it a little "backwards" so to speak. It was so funny to watch!

He was trying to get to his toys in front of him, and he was VERY determined that he would. Finally, he got rid of his fear and pushed himself on all fours (well, pretty close) and began his mission of crawling.

I was amazed!!!! It was so awesome to see him figure it out.

Well, when he started to move, there was a bit of a problem. Problem was, he was moving backwards. Getting further and further away from that toy, and angrier and angrier that he wasn't getting closer, Joshua finally let out a scream that I have never heard before. He definitely shares in the temper of my Italian heritage, but also the stubborn determination to succeed (which comes from both Shawn and I.)

We'll keep you posted on the progress.

Bragging Rights Part 2

Here is the job, Shawn just finished...

My Diagnosis

Ok, y'all know by now that are home is disease infested...

Tyler is better though, so is Joshua and Shawn, but I began running 103.4 fever last night.
Went to the doctors, put me on the Z-pak and you know what the diagnosis was:

SLEEP DEPRIVATION (are you hearing this dear husband of mine?)

Isn't that part of the job description of a mother? And then on top of it a working mother?

Of course, though, when the doctor saw on my chart where I worked he asked me to email him the latest facts and figures... So instead of getting home and going directly to bed I have been emailing the practice some helpful material.

Then they wonder why I'm sick.

Bragging Rights

I have to show off one of the jobs Shawn just finished (on a multi-million dollar home.) He does such great work. It is an outdoor kitchen with a brick oven (for cooking pizzas.)

Classified Ad

Who: Caretaker Needed

What: Wanted someone who can take care of all of us. Must be able to take temperature (ear), bring Tylenol and Motrin and change baby diapers

Where: Yancey House

When: ASAP

Why: Tyler's sick - 104.6 fever, stomach, neck, head issues

Mommy's sick - 100.5 fever, achey

Daddy's sick - 100.2 fever, achey

Joshua's, well - fever is gone, but he's not holding anything in or down

*********Weak stomachs need not apply...******************

Happy Tuesday (or not)

Went back to work today, Joshua's hefty fever went down, but still this is how today went...

• 4:30 am - Alarm goes off
• 4:45 am - All lunch bags/bottle bags/clothes bags for daycare packed and ready to go.
• 4:45-4:55 am - Jump in and out of shower
• 5:25 am - Put roast in the crockpot (easy dinner night)
• 5:30 am - Off to Raleigh, NC
• 6:45 am - Talk to all 3 of my boys, giving phone kisses, wishing good days at work/day care

(Not a bad day so far)

• 7:25 am - Daycare calls - Joshua has pooped and puked everywhere...exact quote:
• "I know you're on your way to Raleigh, but you need to turn around and get him. We know it could be 3 hours. Oh and by the way, we know it is the medication he is on, so please don't bring him back until he is off of it."
• 7:40 am - After hotly debating what do we do with hubby, I call the neighbors

(Remember, I'm driving, he is locally working)

• 8:30 am - I'm in Raleigh, Joshua is at the neighbors, Shawn at work and Ty at daycare
• 10 am - Meeting I'm in Raleigh for begins
• Noon - Meeting I'm in Raleigh for ends???
• 12:10-1:30 pm - Completely lost in Raleigh

(and I have been here many times)

• 4:05 pm - Approaching 20 miles to empty on my gas gauge

(keep praying)

• 4:15 pm - Make it to the gas station
• 4:30 pm - Make it to Tyler's school in the nick of time

(only allowed 9 1/2 hrs or they charge $5/per minute)

• 4:45 pm - Tyler now running 100.8 fever - give motrin, call doctor
• 5 -6:30 pm- Try to answer emails and eat while Joshua is asleep
• 6:45 pm - Give up on it all just to blog.

If this is any sign of the way my rest of the week is going to be, I can't wait til Friday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Update on Joshua

We went to the doctors yesterday morning, and yes, he has an ear infection. They said it was really bad, that they were surprised his ear drum didn't rupture.

As a mom, for me, it makes me feel bad that I didn't look at that any worse in the beginning then I did. But he didn't show any symptoms until Friday....and all that was was a fever. As soon as he started to act worse I called the doctor.

Well, they put him on Augmentin and as of 3 pm today he was still running 103.5 fever. I'm sure he'll get rid of it soon, but it makes me sad to see him sick.

Up All Night, Sleep All Day?

Once again, Joshua and I are up. His little fever hit over 103.5 degrees (doctors office first thing in the morning.)

Officially, I have not had 9 hours of sleep in 3 days. This is bad and I am tired.

All I think it is is an ear infection, but those little buggers can spike a fever!

Oh, well, maybe since its Saturday, Shawn can take over and I can sleep.

In Need of Other Motherly Advice

Ok, I know most of you who read this have families of your own. So I need some advice....

I started both boys in a daycare this week which is very good and came highly recommended.

Tyler, who is on summer break and will start 1st grade this year, is in what is called "kid depot." Not really a daycare like setting, they take field trips once a week and it's more laid back and not so structured (I don't think at his age, any center is too structured,) but they do have to go from computers to soft play to reading to crafts and so on.

Joshua, on the other hand, is in the daycare-like setting and seems to be doing awesome. I swear he has grown up so much in just four days.

Where the needed advice is...is with Tyler.

Tyler, is not happy. He says there is too much to do. Not that he's bored, but that he doesn't get time because he has to go from one area to another. I am actually thinking of taking him out. He actually cries in the morning saying he doesn't want to go. I've never seen that out of him before.

Any suggestions?

A New Tooth

Joshua has a tooth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Would you like to know how I found out?

I'll give you a hint....I still nurse him ( only at night and first thing in the morning.)

Still don't know? (For my mom)

He bit my boob!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Sorry to the men who read this.)

I guess this weekend we will wrap up this nursing thing.

A Few Precious Moments

I have to be honest.

Yesterday when I bought my car, by the end of the 7 1/2 hour sales experience, I was done. Had enough, didn't care about a new car, wanted to go home, but still bought one anyway, finished. I would have been done 4 hours earlier, but Shawn didn't like the first car I was looking at (four cylinder instead of six), so we had to settle on a car (which the next question was color,) before we came home.

I wanted to give up, but eventually Shawn and I agreed on the black fusion, as seen below.

Today though, after I had dropped the kids of at daycare (day 2 and still surviving, I'll blog about it tomorrow), I jumped on the interstate, cruised at about 70 and cranked the stereo losing myself in traffic and music.

At that very moment I realized, it didn't matter if my car was black or if it was pink. If I could just, every once in a while, have those few, precious moments of complete alone time, driving in my car, then it was all worth it.

Wouldn't you agree?

My New Car

Typical Blonde "Mom"ent

I don't normally pick on my mother, but I feel compelled to share with you her latest comment.

For those of you who don't know her, sometimes her died blonde hair, shows through so well, that you would think she was a natural blond (ok, for all you other blondes, I know it is just a figure of speech and of course doesn't hold true.) But let me start by giving you background info.

One time, around Christmas, I was 16 years old or so, we slid on the ice (remember I was born in Upstate NY) through a stop sign. I say, "Don't worry mom. The one's with white borders mean optional."

No joke, fifteen minutes later, and 10 stop signs later, my mother looks at me and asks innocently, "Don't they all have white borders?" (and she was seriously asking.)

Another time, she had come down to the beach (where we lived previously) for my oldests 1st birthday, as did Shawn's uncle and aunt. At this time, I had been with my husband for a couple of years, so she new him pretty well.

She woke up that morning and goes to where Shawn's family is sleeping and says "Good morning Dennis. Leslie, where do you keep the coffee filters?" No question why I would be in bed with my husbands Uncle. It just seemed to be very normal to her.

All this, leading up to my picture on the blog...

I got a phone call this weekend and this is how it went:

Mom: "I loved the picture of you and Shawn."

Me: "Picture of Shawn and I? What are you talking about?"

Mom: "The picture on your blog."

Me: "Mom! That is not of Shawn and me that is of Timothy Peters and me."

Mom: (pause) "Oooooh. Are you sure?"

Gotta love her.

Clean? Why Bother?

I have been cleaning (I am talking DEEP cleaning, not just picking up,) as we are having a ton of company this weekend.

I figured the best way to do this was go room to room. That way, I was working from the front to back and if I didn't have time to get to my bedroom (where everything will eventually end up,) oh well.

Well do you think anyone would understand that?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

As soon as I would get to the next room, Tyler or Shawn or the dogs or the friends would destroy the one I just finished cleaning. I think it looked better before I started to clean. And as I am frantically running around re-cleaning, where do you think my wonderful husband is? Is he helping me? NOOOOOOOOOOOO.

He is outside, washing his truck, since he doesn't want it to be a mess for when our friends get here. I can't quite understand that logic.

They won't be sleeping in the truck. They won't be eating in the truck. And they sure won't be hanging out in the 90 plus degree weather in the truck. So what gives? If anyone can explain, I sure would appreciate it.

Well gotta run, have 3 more rooms to finish.

Ok, I have got to ask this as I am starting to get a complex.

Do I write about uninteresting things, is no one reading this or does no one like to respond?

Gotta know.

Need I Say Anymore?

My New Crush

Oh, I almost forgot! One of the most important things! I have a crush! NCTS Driver, Timothy Peters. Drives for BHR (see previous email for link) and is No. 4.

He worked with us quite a bit for this NASCAR event, and is the kindest, sweetest (ok, ok, second only to my husband,) guy I have ever met. And HANDSOME!!!! ( and his girlfriend is just as beautiful as he is handsome, too.) Made my heart go flutter just a bit.

At least now Ty (who already seems to know all of his stats) and I will begin to watch the Truck Series and we'll have a driver that we can follow his career somewhat from the beginning.

Craftsman For A Cure

Ok, I know I haven't blogged in awhile, but work as kept me EXTREMELY busy the last couple of weeks.

Most of you know I have been working ont he NASCAR Craftsman event that was put on by Bobby Hamilton Racing http://www.bobbyhamiltonracing.com/and Craftsman Motorsports, due to Bobby Hamilton's recent cancer diagnosis.

The event was AMAZING,with a big part of the proceeds going to the American Cancer Society's Relay For Life. Drivers from the Truck Series as well as the Cup Series were there. Hats off to Timothy Peters, Darryl Waltrip, Michael Waltrip, Bobby Labonte, Bobby Hamilton Jr, Scott Lagasse, Kasey Kahne, Kenny Schrader, Ryan Newman, David Reuttiman, Kyle Petty, Kenny Wallace, Brian Vickers, Kenny Wallace, Kurt Busch, Todd Bodine, Ted Musgrave and the rest of the drivers that particpated. They really went out of their way to make this happen.

This event in itself really epitomizes the support that families all over give when someone close to them is diagnosed with cancer. Craftsman For A cure brought such a new found awareness of the American Cancer Society and what we do to the NASCAR Community.

A special kudos to Wendy Belk for making this all happen, without her, we couldn't do it.

Tagged, I'm it?

I got tagged by the Green Family today!

I would link you to their blog, but I haven't figured out how to do that, but visit http://www.chesapeakegreens.blogspot.com/.

Enjoy reading about some of the little things that make me who I am.

ACCENT: Yankee-Southern "Youthern" (born Yankee- Married Southern)

BIBLE BOOK I LIKE: I am not very bible literate, so I am just beginning to study. Any directions on where to begin would be appreciated

CHORE I DON'T CARE FOR: A tie - Unloading the dishwasher and putting laundry away

DOG OR CAT: Both

ESSENTIAL ELECTRONICS: Telephone, Computer, TV, Cell phone

FAVORITE COLOGNE: Dream Angels by Victoria Secret

GOLD OR SILVER: Silver

HANDBAG I CARRY MOST OFTEN: Computer Bag or Diaper Bag

INSOMNIA: Only when Joshua has it

JOB TITLE: Communications guru (at home and work- Can you tell I like to talk?)

KIDS: Do I include husband and pets? - Alyssa 13...Jonathan 12...Tyler 5 1/2...Joshua 7 mos.

LIVING ARRANGEMENTS: 3 bdrm home on beautiful 1 acre. Oh did I tell ya we have father-in-law temporarily housed

MOST ADMIRABLE TRAIT: I love everybody for who they are

NAUGHTIEST CHILDHOOD BEHAVIOR: Talka too much

OVERNIGHT HOSPITAL STAYS: Four or five...Can't remember

PHOBIAS: Flying (thank you ativan) and eating in front of people I don't know

QUOTE: Ya know what I mean?

RELIGION: Christian and looking for a new church. Was baptized last year

SIBLINGS: 1 little brother (29 who is 6 1/2 ft tall) - Marty

TIME I WAKE UP: I try to wake up by 5:45am...doesn't usually happen

UNUSUAL TALENT OR SKILL: To pay attention to what is going on and still blog

VEGETABLE I REFUSE TO EAT: Pinto Beans - NASTY!!!!

WORST HABIT: Leaving house lights on - Ask my hubby he will attest to that

XRAYS: Too many to count

YUMMY STUFF I COOK: Chicken Parm and Roast with Gravy

ZOO ANIMAL I LIKE MOST: Peacock - I have so many colors in my hair

Some answers might surprise, others not so much, but here is me from A to Z.

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Music To My Ears

When Tyler was little, he was pretty quiet up until around 2 years old. I can remember family members thinking maybe something was a wrong, since he didn't talk. It wasn't that he couldn't, it was that he wouldn't. After he reached 2 years old, all that would change...

Five years later comes Joshua. EVERYONE said, "He won't talk, because he has an older brother to do it for him." Well, I don't know where they got their information, because Joshua's nickname in our household is Mighty Mouth.

I am telling you, NON-STOP. I know some of you are thinking, "well he gets it honestly." I agree, I talk a lot, but nothing compared to these two. Everytime Shawn and I try to have a conversation, Joshua starts saying over and over again (and loud too), "Ay yie yie yie, da da da da "(hi squeeled I might add,) and Tyler joins in "La La La La, uno, dos, tres...," not to be outdone by his baby brother.

Now, when we stop talking...no one says a word. It's just like we all are having one HUGE conversation.

Well you know, I have learned something, the smaller they are, the louder they talk, but no matter what it still is (most of the time) music to my ears.

Mother's Day Cards

My mother's day cards were so great!!! Shawn and Joshua made me one and Tyler made me one:

Tyler's said:
Happy Mother's Day Mom!!!

All thes das I had so fun. Naw it is Mother's Day!!!

I am still trying to figure out if he meant we were going to have fun or if, because it was mother's day we wouldn't have fun. It was awesome.

and Shawn's
Roses are Red
Violets are Blue
I am glad you're the mother of my children
and that is so the truth.

What meant so much, is everyone who knows us, knows that I am the creative one. There has only been 3 other times, that Shawn ever wrote something to me...our Wedding Day, the day Tyler was born, the day I came home from the hospital with Joshua and for Mothers day.

These are the days I will never forget.

Idol Be Gone

I cannot believe it! Chris Daughtry was kicked off of Idol last night!! I can't watch anymore!!!

Fall Down Go Boom

We went to Friendly's to have a little ice cream (yes, I know that is not the way to lose weight,) but it was good. I had indulged in what was called Forbidden Fudge Brownie Sundae. Everything was chocolate, and it was fabulous.

Well Nana went with us, as we are in Myrtle Beach, and Tyler wanted to ride back to her house with her. As I was walking back from putting his booster seat in her car, the parking lot lights started flickering and then went out. I, then, tripped over the curb, and began to fall....Shawn said it looked as if I was sliding into second. And BOOM, I was down. I ripped a huge hole in my caprees, not to mention my knee. My arm is all cut up and bruised. It looks awful and it HURTS!!!!!!!!1

I have not skinned my knee since I was probably a kid. I forgot just how much skinned knees hurt. Shawn and I joked and said God just wanted to remind me of how they feel, as Tyler is learning to ride a bike with no training wheels and will probably have many of them to come.

American Idol

Shawn and I watch American Idol every week. This is one of those shows that we have always watched together.Tonight, though, is vote off night.

I can't take the suspense. I have come to love almost all of the performers, (Chris Daughtry, my favorite and from the Carolinas. ) I am so afraid and upset of who could possibly be voted off. Each one of them had one good song and one bad song. The suspense is really truly killing me.

The sad part is, I am not stressed because I want someone to win so bad. It's just that, (and I know that I am a sap,) I am afraid I will cry no matter who is voted off. Shawn laughs at me and says that you would think I personally know each contestant. But it is a hard thing to watch. Last week fortunately, I was at a work thing, so I didn't see the show. Shawn had to tell me who was kicked off.

So, I think this week, I will do the same. Pretend I am at work and let him tell me who gets the axe.

Welcome Swimmy!!!

After the tragic death of the short-lived Fin, we have taken Tyler to our local Pet Smart and purchased a Betta fish that Tyler named Swimmy.

Welcome Swimmy to the Yancey home!!! Beware of Doc the cat!

The Life (and Death) of Fin

When I went to Relay this weekend, I took Tyler, as I usually do. He and I always have a lot of fun and it is a good way that I can introduce him into my work life a little bit, so he knows what Mommy does when asked.

At Relay there are always a lot of things for kids to do. Games, activities, you name it, it is there. Tyler played many games, but his favorite by far, was one that you throw balls in a goldfish bowl and win a fish. Of course, every kid that plays, receives a fish.

Well, Tyler did win. A little, itty, bitty, goldfish that he named Fin. I liked Ed better, but he insisted that it would be Fin. So Fin it was.

We made sure Daddy had a fish bowl ready when we got home that night, and we introduced Fin to his new home. Tyler kissed the bowl and said goodnight to Fin.

The next morning Fin didn't look to good. When Tyler woke up he ran out and said, "Looks like Fin likes to look at the bottom of the bowl." A little later he said, "Mom, he still is looking at the bottom," and finally "Mom, I think he is dead, can we flush him down the toilet?"

So, we had a small little prayer for our friend Fin as we proceeded to flush him. I actually think I had a small tear as Tyler said, "Go to the fishbowl in Heaven Fin. See you later."

If I Didn't Have Bad Luck, I Wouldn't Have Any

Last night Tyler went to his friends house for a birthday party and to spend the night.
Shawn decided that we should go on a date (though we still had Joshy) and took me out to dinner.

I got food poisoning and was sick all night long. Does this sort of thing happen to anyone else, or am I the only one?

American Cancer Society Relay For Life

I have to tell you, I work for one of, if not the best organizations...The American Cancer Society. Last night, I was once again reminded of that, as I attended two of the Society's Relays For Life.

Relay For Life, an overnight celebration of life and survivorship, brings a community together to fight this disease that touches so many people. Every dollar raised goes toward fighting cancer in four main ways: research, education, advocacy and patient services.

One of the really wonderful pieces of the Relay For Life program is the Survivors Lap, which kicks off the event. Each cancer survivor is introduced and all survivors complete the first lap around the track before being joined by the other participants. It’s a really nice way for us to keep in mind why we participate in Relay For Life.

I took Tyler with me to the two events, which was wonderful. He really, over the last couple of years, looks forward to attending these events. He went around with me, meeting team captains, volunteers and most importantly survivors. And they were survivors of ALL ages.

In particular, there was one girl (I say girl as she is younger than I am,) that really touched me, and helped me to remember, as I have recently had some tough times at work, why I do this, why I Relay.

Her name is Sarah, and she is a 24 years old. Last year, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, and at such a young age. More importantly, and a key point to this story, is that she was one month pregnant.

Being told that she needed to have treatment immediately, and the chemo/radiation could hurt the fetus, she had a horrible decision to make.

She did, though, choose to turn to her faith and to God, to give her direction and strength. She decided to have what she could removed, but to hold off on any follow up as she wanted to protect this little baby, forgoing her health.

Well, I am here to tell you, that Sarah is fine, and her beautiful baby boy is 10 weeks old, and the words she said to me, I will never forget, "My baby and I are living proof that there is hope."

I love what I do. I love the people I meet. I love the stories I am told. I love the impact they have on my life and the impact, we, as the American Cancer Society, have on their lives.

I have to share that this past week, I had to travel out of state for a work meeting.

Anyone who knows me, knows that I am a high anxiety person anyways (reason for my Lexapro,) but I become even more anxious just thinking about having to fly.

It is not the necessarily the flying, it is more like the taking off and landing. In the air, I am just fine, but during the take off and landings, though I take an Adavan or Xanax, doctor prescribed I might add, prior to flight, I am still a nervouswreck.

I have to admit, this time flying back and forth, I have had very nice, and understanding people with me, that don't laugh, or get angry or even ask to change seats...even when I grab onto their jackets.

You would think I would stop flying and only drive to places, but who has time anymore?

It's A Great Day To Be Alive...

"And it's a great day to be alive,

I know the sun's still shinin when I close my eyes.

There's some hard times in the neigborhood,

But why can't every day be just this good?"

- Travis Tritt

Have you ever had one of those days with your children and you just new it would be a day that they never would forget? Today was one for us with Tyler, and it is a day that I know that I will never forget.

Shawn and I taught Tyler how to ride his bicycle without training wheels!!! It took both of us, but we did it...actually, Tyler did it with some help from Mom and Dad.

I have to share this because I know Shawn was proud of Tyler (and himself) of getting Ty to ride, but I have to admit, my part in all of this made me feel great.

Ty decided today he wanted to learn how to ride his bike though he was so scared to try to ride without his training wheels. He actually started crying and was really, really afraid. Shawn, of course, did everything he possibly could to reassure Ty that he would be okay. We almost didn't even let him try, because he seemed so upset (and this was his idea.)

But my baby, who lately has turned into such a big boy, just needed his Mommy.

So here is what we did...

While Daddy was holding the back of the bike, we had Tyler to focus on Mommy and that was it. Just keep looking right at Mommy and don't look back. And you know what? It worked!!! He kept staring so hard at me while his little feet were peddling away.

Before we knew it, Tyler was riding his bike all over the yard and everything!!! We were stunned. It was awesome!!! You would never guess that he had just learned how to ride his bike.

The best part of the day though, was not that fact that he needed me (yeah that was cool,) or that Dad got him off to a great start (and I know he liked that,) it was the smile that wouldn't come off of Ty's face. It was the fact that he needed to call the people he loves to tell him he did it. It was that my baby took one more step.

I am so proud of him....He's growing up....

Shopping Anyone?

I have to share what happended today with Tyler.

When we went to Syracuse a couple weeks ago Tyler made out like a bandit (money wise.) $11.00 and an ice cream for his 2nd tooth that came out while we were there, $2.00 every time my mother saw him, which equaled another $16.00 and then various money other relatives gave him for this and that.

Well Tyler has been itching to spend his money all week, so today we took him to Target. We were after a "hotwheels scooter" of some sort. Though when we got there, Tyler, completely overwhelmed and excited, decided NOT to get the scooter after all, because it was too expensive and would have used up all of his money, instead bought something much cheaper.

As we were waiting in line, Tyler and I had a very interesting conversation that went something like this...

Tyler: "Mommy, I was a good boy in Target today"

Me: "Of, course, and I am very proud of you."

Tyler: "Then, since I was a good boy, can you buy me the Hotweels scooter I want really, really bad?"

Me: "Well Ty, you have money, you can buy it instead of what you got."

Tyler: "But you make more money than I do and that could be my present."

It is funny how tight he already is with his money, but how willing he is to spend ours.

It's a girl and a girl and another girl...

Today I received a birth announcement from Tyler's school.

Ty's kindergarten class had an incubator with eggs and apparently they recently welcomed Cutie Pie, Chirpie and Chic-fil-a.

I can handle the Cutie Pie and Chirpie, but Chic-Fil-A? Predetermining that poor chic's future.

I now see why Tyler seems to be going vegetarian.

Stinky Poopy

Ok, as parents I know we tend to be silly and make up really funny songs. I am usually the silly one, but I have to give it to Shawn on this one.

Stinky Poopy
lyrics by Shawn Yancey
tune of Wooly Bully

Joshy told Daddy,

that he was real sad.

He had a bad poopy,

and it stunk real bad.

Stinky Poopyyyyyyyyyyyyyy, Stinky Poopy

Stinky Poopy, Stinky Poopy, Stinky Poopy.

Tooth

The tooth is out, the tooth is out, the little tiny tooth is out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ironic, Don't Ya Think?

For all of you who are generation xers, you probably remember the Alanis Morrisette song "Ironic." For those of you don't know, some lyrics are...

"It's like rain on your wedding day
It's a free ride when you've already paid
It's the good advice that you just didn't take
Who would've thought...it figures.

Well life has a funny way of sneaking up on you
When you think everything's okay and everything's going right
And life has a funny way of helping you out when
You think everything's gone wrong and everything blows up
In your face"

I have to tell you, I was really excited about going to Martinsville, VA yesterday where I would be in a press conference with NASCAR Craftsman Motortruck Series Champion, Bobby Hamilton. He would announce his charity event for the American Cancer Society.

Once I found out I was going, I was super stoked, though I really couldn't show too much enthusiasm around Shawn (he is a HUGE NASCAR fan) that would have just bummed him out that I had a "hot pass" to walk around the garage, meet all the drivers and watch qualifying.

So, I just tried to act like it was no big deal, even around friends.

So the big day comes and wouldn't you guess, 20 minutes into my trip and BAM I get hit by a car. Doesn't it figure??

Goodbye Martinsville, Goodbye Bobby Hamilton, Goodbye exciting trip. Instead I had a day of police officers, insurance companies and doctors appointments.

Next time I will act a little more stoked around everyone, including Shawn, and not try to hide it so.

Lost Teeth, Found Teeth

Recently, Tyler has started the stage of losing his bottom two teeth. This is not something that either Shawn or I want to deal with. Makes us both kind of queasy to be perfectly honest.

But that darn thing is ready to come out. In fact so much so that his permanant tooth is coming in behind it.

Quote from Shawn:
"I don't believe I've ever seen anything like that before in my life."

Very Gross!

On the flip side of things, Joshua is getting the same two teeth that Tyler is losing.

Quote from Tyler:
"It is like Joshua is stealing my teeth."

Either case, I am just ready for this part to be over with.

Out Of Commission, but Back In Action

To all those that read this crazy thing, I am sorry that I have been out of commission lately.

Between work's crazy schedule (Relay Season has begun,) and being a mom to a kindergartener and 5 month old, I haven't found the time to blog. But I am back in action and will begin blogging as usual.

Blog to you soon............

Daycare Blues

I visited two daycares today, knowing that my neighbor who keeps Joshua will not be able to continue babysitting much past May.

I won't name where I visited, but I will say, I am beginning to have second thoughts about being a working mom (just joking Chris.) One of them I went with was frightening. It had 22 infants in one room, with four teachers and two spaces available. I couldn't comprehend how they could do that, or how the teachers can handle it. When I asked, they said well we are actually two kids down, so we have a bit of a break.

A bit of a break???

I tell you, while I was in there I about had an anxiety attack. I could imagine Joshy in there, crying, wondering what he had done so wrong that his mommy would put him into such a place. I actually started hyperventilating.

The woman asked me if I wanted to tour the rest of the daycare (she must have seen the look of fright on my face.) I reluctantly went and then quickly ran out the door.

It blows me away that these daycare workers, who make minimum wage, have a 6:1 ratio are the people who will have the most influence, outside of parents, on our future, our children. All we can do is pray to God to keep not only our children, but those who nurture, teach and mold them close to His heart.

Holy Blowout Batman!!!!!!!!

For those of you who read this blog and don't have kids, you might want to pass this one up...
For those of you who have kids, I think you will feel for us....

This has only happened one other time since we had Joshua.
I am not even sure how it happens.

But Joshua had a complete blowout of his diaper. I don't even think the "pooh" hit the diaper...just went up his back, making it nearly impossible to remove any clothing without getting it eveywhere.

Of course, Joshua was laughing.

Not sure if he was laughing at the fact that it took Shawn and I 30 minutes to take off the outfit, get him in the bathtub and clean him up, or the fact that his tummy felt better.

I tend to believe it was a little of both.

Things kids say...

Recently, a fellow blogger wrote about funny things kids say (not really knowing the meaning of what they say,) which prompted me to write this.

Today we went to Cracker Barrel and Tyler thoroughly embarressed us.

He was looking out the window and there was a woman sitting outside. He says "Mom, look, that woman has big boobs...actually, they are enormous!"

I say, "Tyler, you don't say things like that!" (and then I kick Shawn under the table as to say something as well.) So Shawn says, "Yeah, you don't say things like that, especially in front of your mom."

Thinking back now, how would you take that?

Welcome Spring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When winter starts to fade, there are some that love their spring cleaning.

Not us...

I know this sounds strange, but whenever the first bout of spring comes around, Shawn and I go crazy about yardwork. Even when we owned the house at the beach, it was a big deal. The first nice weekend was usually spent at the closest Lowes Home Improvement store stocking up on the must haves for the yard.

This year was no different.

When we bought and moved into our new house, it was right around Thanksgiving, so all of the plants, trees and shrubs were in, what I lovingly refer to as rest mode (makes it sound better than dead.) Now that spring has unofficially sprung, all of the flowers are starting to bloom and it is beauuuuutiful!!! Purple tulips, dogwood trees and other things that I don't know what they are, I just know they are pretty are popping up all over the place.

So not to fail our yearly tradition, Shawn and I have gotten 3 truckloads of red mulch to accent the already beautiful landscaping. As you probably notice when you look at the time, it is only 4:50pm, and Thank You God, Joshua has woken up from his nap, so I was able to take a break from spreading it. I was ready for a break. I do forget every year, just how hard of work it is. I even got my first blister of the year.

So welcome spring, it's nice to see you again ol' friend.

Cheesburger in Paradise No More

Well it is official...
I am completely over the hill.
Yup, old as dirt.
Might even need a walker soon.

Now, let me tell you what brought me to this startling conclusion.

It was announced today that Jimmy Buffett would be playing at an amphitheater close to where I live.

Cool, I thought, I haven't been to a concert in awhile. Maybe I can go to this one.

Call a colleague to see if she would like to go. It would be pretty cool. We'd have fun.

No, we decide, we would have to take the day after the concert off of work to recupe. We just can't handle that kind of excitement anymore. We'd feel bad. Even if we didn't do anything bad. You know those young Parrotheads. We would be dealing with all of the effects of their fun.

So I guess on Sunday,June 4th, instead of going to Margaritaville, I will be listening to Buffett on CD, but come Monday it'll be alright.

Adult TV

I have to share a funny with y'all.

Yesterday, when Shawn got home from work, guess what we watched on TV?

Give up?

Jimmy Neutron, Boy Genius, on Nickelodeon.

The kicker of it all is that Tyler wasn't even home.

I think it is time for some grown ups only date. Maybe we'll even go see a PG movie.

Super Yanceys?

We watched the movie Sky High last night.

The only question Tyler had at the end was, "Are you and Daddy superhero's too?"

Which made us think...if we were superheros what powers would we want to have?

Shawn has decided that he would like to fly like superman, eliminating the need for other modes of transportation, as well as be invisible.

I just new he was going to say x-ray vision.

His reasoning behind invisibility over x-ray vision, is that if he was invisible he would never need x-ray, for he could always be in the right place at the right time. Such a man.

Me, on the other hand. I do like the idea of being invisible, that way I can see what my kids are doing and where they are going and not get caught (please read previous blog posting and you'll understand why,) and to have the ability to stretch, like on the Fantastic Four.

Think of all the things I could do from the comfort of my living room. I could go grocery shopping, get the mail and truly "work from home." I could be brushing my teeth in the bathroom, while making Tylers lunch in the kitchen. The list could go on and on (while my weight would probably go up and up with no exercise.)

Well, realistically, I think as parents we do have super powers that no one else has...
We can see out of the back of our heads, we have ESP and know when our child is about to do something foolish (and usually catch him before he does it,) and we also seem to be able to conquer the world for our children.

It is great to be a super hero.

I Am Done...

(Not Quite Me, But Same Feeling...)

It's A Girl!

It's official, please welcome Sable Yancey

14 lbs 8 oz grayish-blue

age - undetermined

C.R.A.P.

I have a new acronymn...

It seems like everywhere I turn, somebody has another great idea.

Whether it be home, work or anywhere in between, I hear the scary phrase, "I have a great idea," usually followed by, "why don't you do...?"

My new acronymn is C.R.A.P., Creative Reasoning Among People.

So now, I have a lot of CRAP to do!!!!

Frogger Crazed

Tyler definitely gets his obsessiveness honestly.

The latest craze for him is Frogger. Yeah, you know, we used to have it on Atari, then went to Nintendo and now we have it on PlayStation (I know we're behind, we only have PS 1.)

Ty is really good, but really obsessed. Has to play first thing in the morning, last thing at night, would play all day long if possible (which is not,) even talks about it in his sleep. I am beginning to worry slightly. At dinner, I swore he said "ribbit."

Today he told us, seriously as can be, that he didn't have time to go to church, because he needed to get frogger out of the "leaf level." He has taken over the living room TV, because we want to monitor it somewhat and is trying to convince his little brother to catch the craze.